

We spent the evening at McKinnon's grandparents' house for a BBQ. A massive squirt gun fight broke out and I wasn't brave enough to take my Nikon into the fray. There were some awfully large 'kids' participating.
The beach is our destination today as we attempt to escape the heat...
Ruth by Elizabeth Gaskell embodies the ideas and questions so beautifully presented in What's So Amazing About Grace?, but in story form that engaged me emotionally in a way that I have not felt in a very long time. I read through many passages with tears streaming down my face. Gaskell created a variety of characters who, sometimes whispering--sometimes shouting, were the voices of grace and 'ungrace.'
pg. 119
In the Bensons' house there was the same unconsciousness of individual merit, the same absence of introspection and analysis of motive, as there had been in her mother; but it seemed that their lives were pure and good, not merely from a lovely and beautiful nature, but from some law, the obedience to which was, of itself, harmonious peace, and which governed them almost implicitly, and with as little questioning on their part, as the glorious stars which haste not, rest not, in their eternal obedience. This household had many failings: they were but human, and, with all their loving desire to bring their lives into harmony with the will of God, they often erred and fell short; but, somehow, the very errors and faults of one individual served to call out higher excellencies in another, and so they re-acted upon each other, and the result of short discords was exceeding harmony and peace...[I]f Mr. Benson did sometimes, in hours of sick incapacity for exertion, turn inwards, it was to cry aloud with almost morbid despair, 'God be merciful to me a sinner!' But he strove to leave his life in the hands of God, and to forget himself.
pg. 170
Miss Benson piqued herself upon being less carried away by her love for this child than any one else in the house; she talked severely, and had capital theories; but her severity ended in talk, and her theories would not work. However, she read several books on education, knitting socks for Leonard all the while; and, upon the whole, I think, the hands were more usefully employed than the head, and the good honest heart better than either.
There were moments of dry humor, romance, despair, and hope. The ending was tragic and beautiful.
Gaskell's writing is superb. Not being a literary critic myself, I wonder why Gaskell hasn't enjoyed posthumous popularity and success equal to her contemporary, Jane Austen. Apparently I am not the only one who thinks that Elizabeth Gaskell is a swirling blend of Jane Austen and Charles Dickens. She captures the romantic conflicts of Austen and cries out in Dickens fashion against the injustices of the time.
A few years ago we read Wives and Daughters (also in a terrific film version). I enjoyed the book until the very end when, tragically, the author dies before completing the book (something I was completely unprepared for), and the editor speculates on the ending, quickly wrapping things up in a neat little package. I was devastated and longed for the emotional closure of a perfectly ended romance story. I am used to rough and tumble boys dressed in blues and greens. I felt like I had entered fairy land. Wilder is like cotton candy. The tiniest piece of beautiful pink fluff.
My boys were enthralled. Leif looked like a sumo wrestler next to her. Hard to believe he is only 4 months older!
I don't know that they have ever seen a pink tutu before. Fascinating. Boy clothes are so boring.
We had a lovely picnic and talked homeschooling, decorating, blogging, Poet's Garden, photography, and family. Bella Art Girl threatened to post all her 'unedited' photos of myself and the house. We laughed about all the things around here you've never seen in pictures... Her blog will probably shout 'Mt. Hope ~ Exposed!'
Ladies (and kids!)~ Thank you for the wonderful visit. I'm so glad you came. We'll have to do it again soon.
I love relaxing outside at sunset. It is the boys' favorite time to play.
Twilight isn't bad either. Particularly when Dad is helping construct a huge grass nest:
An open box makes a wonderful tunnel or nest escape hatch. Hatch. Hmmm.Stay tuned for next time when we build a tree fort using only recycled paper bags and twine. Just teasing.